What Type of Woman do you Want.

Hello All,

It's been a while but I am back.

So this blog is for all those single guys out there. What Type of woman do you want?
You can have a woman that gives you her number or a woman that gives you her heart. The decision however is up to you. The reason why I say this is because you attract what you are.

If you just want numbers then you will get a numbers girl.. But if you want heart you will get a girl who wants to share her heart with you.

You are what you are.

Believe in love..
Gardener Love..

Nigerian Single Women in America (NSWIA)

The amount of Nigerian Single Women in America (NSWIA) is growing at an astounding rate. Why us this so? Isn't there a sufficient amount of Nigerian Single Men in America (NSMIA)? Or is it the case that NSMIA are gradually gaining more popularity amongst women from other worldly ethnicities? Maybe, it's because NSWIA are materially discriminatory against NSMIA.
In essence, this issue is of great concern to both NSWIA and NSMIA. I personally believe the raising amount of NSWIA, for the most part is caused by NSWIA stereotypical mentality towards the financial capabilities of NSMIA, combined with a long recessive belief and ideology towards the concept of Nigerian Love.
NSWIA are an "extremely" picky bunch. Being "extremely" picky has advantages, but it also has its disadvantages. There are NSWIA that won't date a NSMIA because he doesn't make enough money or he doesn't own a car as of yet. Additionally, NSWIA have gradually built up a list of "must have" as a measuring stick in order to choose the right NSMIA for themselves.
Choosing the right NSMIA is no longer based on friendship but is now based on material wealth. NSWIA tend to be more attracted to only NSMIA with a lot of money, a house and a car, rather than a NSMIA who's a reliable man, a good conversationalist or an excellent cook. Money seems to be the primary reason why NSWIA will date or not date a NSMIA. If you are one of these or know any of these NSWIA, then I must oblige all of you to redefine your selection process and include more important ideas like Friendship and Love.
NSWIA should initially seek NSMIA as friends. Friendship is the foundation of Love. Or you could say that Love is a heightened and mature stage of a successful friendship. You see, the real deal is that NSWIA deserve pure and undiluted Love from NSMIA. And in order to receive this kind of Love, NSWIA must redefine their selection process and take control of the situation. NSWIA must refrain from a mentality; of does he have it or he doesn't have it when selecting their NSMIA. Rather, they should actualize the power they have over the situation and choose a NSMIA to date the same way they would choose a good friend.

Yours Truly,
Gardener Love/Lovers Gardener
L.A. Jacobs (Match Maker Extraordinaire)"The Best way to meet someone sweet is through someone else"- Try ME!!

Time and Love

This movie is complex, interesting and romantic. Two Lovers are intertwined by Time Travel. One in the present and the other moves back and forth in between the past, present and the future. Ironically, death still has the power to take away the life of those we Love and in this romance death plays her part well.

Clare and Henry are bound by certain destiny to be together forever. They share a love that moves and operates outside of our understaning but exists within the realms of our collective consciousness. Henry and Clare are a pleasant surprise to our imagination. Their Love is both fragile and precious, real and fantasy. A sweet memory, dream or dejavu of a love we dreamt of or wished for.

PS: In life there is a love we long for and this love can always be created. Travel into time, the past, or the future and bring this love to the present. The Love we all seek is not far off. It is much closer than we think. Try right in front of us.

L.A. Jacobs (Match Maker Extraordinaire)
"The Best way to meet someone sweet is through someone else"

What is Love to you?

I presume Love has a different meaning to everyone. What is your take on Love? How do you feel about it? Do you believe it could happen to you?

Please post your comments.


Thank you,

L.A. Jacobs (Match Maker Extraordinaire)

"The Best way to meet someone sweet is through someone else"

That Big Golden Sun that God made

Your Invited to A Blog Party:

That Big Golden Sun that God made is a symbol of His Love for us. The light of the Sun shines bright and Love shines bright as well. The radiance of the Sun generates energy and Love always generates energy. The Sun is a shinning beacon of Light and Love is also a beacon of Light.

In unison, my blog (http://loversgardener.blogspot.com/) will be a symbol of Love, shinning bright like the Sun for you.

Thank you,

L.A. Jacobs (Match Maker Extraordinaire)

"The Best way to meet someone sweet is through someone else"