The amount of Nigerian Single Women in America (NSWIA) is growing at an astounding rate. Why us this so? Isn't there a sufficient amount of Nigerian Single Men in America (NSMIA)? Or is it the case that NSMIA are gradually gaining more popularity amongst women from other worldly ethnicities? Maybe, it's because NSWIA are materially discriminatory against NSMIA.
In essence, this issue is of great concern to both NSWIA and NSMIA. I personally believe the raising amount of NSWIA, for the most part is caused by NSWIA stereotypical mentality towards the financial capabilities of NSMIA, combined with a long recessive belief and ideology towards the concept of Nigerian Love.
NSWIA are an "extremely" picky bunch. Being "extremely" picky has advantages, but it also has its disadvantages. There are NSWIA that won't date a NSMIA because he doesn't make enough money or he doesn't own a car as of yet. Additionally, NSWIA have gradually built up a list of "must have" as a measuring stick in order to choose the right NSMIA for themselves.
Choosing the right NSMIA is no longer based on friendship but is now based on material wealth. NSWIA tend to be more attracted to only NSMIA with a lot of money, a house and a car, rather than a NSMIA who's a reliable man, a good conversationalist or an excellent cook. Money seems to be the primary reason why NSWIA will date or not date a NSMIA. If you are one of these or know any of these NSWIA, then I must oblige all of you to redefine your selection process and include more important ideas like Friendship and Love.
NSWIA should initially seek NSMIA as friends. Friendship is the foundation of Love. Or you could say that Love is a heightened and mature stage of a successful friendship. You see, the real deal is that NSWIA deserve pure and undiluted Love from NSMIA. And in order to receive this kind of Love, NSWIA must redefine their selection process and take control of the situation. NSWIA must refrain from a mentality; of does he have it or he doesn't have it when selecting their NSMIA. Rather, they should actualize the power they have over the situation and choose a NSMIA to date the same way they would choose a good friend.
Yours Truly,
Gardener Love/Lovers Gardener
L.A. Jacobs (Match Maker Extraordinaire)"The Best way to meet someone sweet is through someone else"- Try ME!!
